Pet Custody Mediation, Dog Behavior Support & Education for Professionals

My name is Karis Nafte, and I'm a leading global voice in pet custody matters with over three decades of experience working with dogs and their families. As a Certified Dog Behavior Consultant and Accredited Mediator, I specialize in helping clients navigate the complexities of pet custody during separation and divorce.

I believe that pets deserve to have their needs and perspectives considered during family transitions. My approach is unique because I look at each situation through the eyes of the pet, ensuring that custody decisions prioritise their well-being as much as your peace of mind.

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Who Keeps the Dog: Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce by Karis Nafte.

Endorsement by Kenneth Cloke, Author The Magic in Mediation and Mediating Dangerously : 

Karis Nafte has written a unique, important, and highly useful book about a problem that is so common you would think dozens of books would have been written about it. As a divorce mediator, I have encountered many bitter disputes over pet custody, yet as a mediation trainer, I find it largely ignored – probably because Karis Nafte’s book had not yet been written. In clear, practical language, Nafte tells many stories and offers immensely useful advice for mediators, lawyers, and separating couples, all of whom will benefit enormously from this outstanding guide – to say nothing of the pets. 

Endorsement by Patricia McConnell, author, PhD, CAAB Emeritus: 

Some of my most difficult consults have been about “who keeps the dog” when couples are separating. If only I’d had this thoughtful, practical, and compassionate book to hand my clients!  Karis Nafte has all the skills needed to write this book—regarding canine behavior, the law, and as a practicing consultant. It’s the perfect addition to any consultant shelf, and for anyone facing difficult decisions about their beloved dog.” 

Publications, podcasts & presentations

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Cover of The Divorce Magazine with the tagline 'Because so much is riding on your divorce'.
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Cover page of Pet Lifestyles Magazine, September 2021, Volume 4, Issue 3
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Client testimonials:

  • "I recently completed the pet custody mediation course with Who Keeps the Dog and I couldn’t be more delighted with the experience! The course was engaging, practical, and expertly delivered, offering deep insights that go far beyond the usual mediation training. Karis’s unique blend of animal behaviour expertise and mediation experience made the learning truly memorable, relevant and immediately applicable to my practice as a family dispute resolution practitioner."

    Dannielle Young

  • "Karis is so great!! I have seen two of her programs and have learned so much that I can use in my mediation and law practice AND with my own dog and cats. I live around the world and would only use Karis for any help that I need!! She really is the BEST you could hope for in an advocate for your animals."

    Gwen Letine Pennsylvania, USA

  • “Karis Pet Custody Course for Animal Behavior Consultants was highly insightful. Her knowledge and experience in this rare field are outstanding,”

    Nikki Finn-Loudenslager CDBC - Arizona

  • “The Pet Mediation training course was so informative. Karis brought decades of knowledge to the course and presented it in a logical understandable manner.”

    Dari DeSousa, PHR - California USA

  • “Karis really has mastered both the mediation world and animal behavior. She switches hats effortlessly and has produced a valuable course.”

    Laura - Mediator, California USA